kenvanliew.com » Kenneth J. Van Liew http://kenvanliew.com/blog Life mastery and success systems... Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:59:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 en hourly 1 A Heartfelt Message! http://kenvanliew.com/blog/2010/01/17/a-heartfelt-message/ http://kenvanliew.com/blog/2010/01/17/a-heartfelt-message/#comments Sun, 17 Jan 2010 09:09:43 +0000 Kenneth J. Van Liew http://kenvanliew.com/blog/?p=263 KJV_pic3 Dear Friends:

As you all know, the crippling earthquake in Haiti has left a city in ruins, insurmountable death and people around the world shocked by the havoc of nature and the great need.

I asked myself this question today, “what can I do to make a special difference”? My answer was, anything you do is appreciated, as crippling devastation is worsening in Haiti.

From governments, to you and me, together we can help, we can mobilize our troops, combine efforts to help the living and make sense of this natural disaster.

The stories being told of heroism, grace and valor, amid the rubble of tragedy are awe-inspiring!

Contribute to your local reputable charity, assist one another, as our world is small and each and every one of us has a uniqueness that is special to help someone in need!

What prompted me to write this note for you to share, was me over hearing a small child at the supermarket this evening say, “Mom, can I give all the money in my bank account to help the young children in Haiti.” This child had learned at this early age, we are a small global community, which is instantaneously connected!

Let us all connect, let us all pray and let us all be grateful for all we have!

Please share your goodness on our wall at ONE GOOD DEED DAILY for you will inspire the world!

Sincerely yours,
Ken Van Liew

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As I reflect on 2009, I think of the many challenges, facing our future.

We have all felt the impact of fear and uncertainty, during these critically weak economic times.

Now ask yourself, what was the greatest lesson learned in 2009?

Looking back together, I would have to say, mindset…..YES…..mindset; for I always believed our greatest accomplishments cannot be attained, without steadfast commitment and dedicated intensity.

People begin with different personalities and different skill sets; but it is clear that experience, training, and individual effort, take them the rest of the way.

It is impossible to ascertain the impact when an individual is reinforced with proper inspiration and preparation, their mindset can accomplish the impossible!

A positive mindset allows the individual to empower themselves and others, through their inner luminosity, which spreads like a blanket for all humanity.

Below is a link, please download the ”Questionnaire”; which represents reviewing your effectiveness in the year passed and a new gateway to envision our Dreams, with renewed focus and clarity.

COMPLETING AND REMEMBERING 2009

You will create opportunities to success, for when the mindset believes, inspiration achieves!

With this mindset, I engage in the excitement of the New Decade 2010, with sincere optimism, and an inner confidence to inspire and create opportunities for myself and you.

Now is the time to challenge ourselves, to empower, for success thrives during difficult economic times!

Wishing you, A Happy New Year!

Sincerely yours,
Ken Van Liew

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However you want to describe it, your spirituality can improve your quality of life.

Throughout history, people have drawn upon it when they needed it the most, such as; during a crisis, a death of a loved one and the downward economy. Spirituality can help you become strong, face the unknown and have the faith needed to march ahead or get through that tough situation.

The mind, body and spirit are said to be connected. The spirit is the essence of you. It’s the part of you that lives on and is where you receive your hunches, intuition and gut feelings. This is where your faith comes in as well.

The mind processes your thoughts. The chemical reactions produce feelings, emotions and thought vibrations. The mind could be thought as a bridge between the body and soul.

Your body is home to your mind and allows you to have a physical connection with your physical world.

With a deep spirituality you can stay positive and see the goodness around you. The courage it brings is what propels you forward and keeps you creative.

As you become comfortable with yourself and build a foundation and connection to God, you will become more aligned with your real ambitions. With a clear awareness that guides you, with clear choices, you will then attract what you desire.

Now you are creating your own world, as you reflect the goodness of humanity.

If you find that it’s hard for you to be spiritual, then you can discover ways to help you accomplish it.

Meditation is one way. It has been used throughout history. Meditation has been studied and is known to grow certain areas of the brain and improve memory. It can also let you find your true self.

Other ways can include your house of worship, books or just practicing being a good person that cares about others. Learn to forgive. Holding hatred inside will hurt yourself and the people who care about you. So even if you can’t forget, discover forgiveness.

Help others that need your assistance when you can. Try to look at their life, as if it was your own. How would you feel?

Take care of yourself and be kind to yourself and others. Let your friendly human nature emerge and live your life with joy and contentment.

As a child you expressed yourself freely. You enjoyed the simple things in life and connected easily with others in a friendly way. As you grew, you became more rigid. You loss trust and became more serious and businesslike.

We all still have that “child” in us and we need to bring out our “child likeness” more often, to really enjoy life and be connected to nature again.

What will be your personal path? Where do you choose to go? It really is up to you to decide.

Your spirit is life and your mind will help you construct your thoughts into the physical results. With a greater spirituality, you can brighten your lamp with your spirit’s energy and light up your brain and body.

With more spirituality comes a deeper more profound essence of life!

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Relationships and connections are very important and invaluable to your health, wealth, happiness and success. Everyone wants to be accepted and loved by families and friends.

In business it is also crucial that you master the gift of relationships. If you want to be accepted and open up opportunities then knowing how to relate to others is of the utmost importance.

First of all, you must treat yourself with love, compassion and acceptance. Break out of the negative patterns that will hold you back and fuel your fear of rejection.

Once you start treating yourself with respect and feel confident, then you can share these attributes with others and form valuable relationships.

You may not realize it, but in the next few minutes you’re going to learn how to earn other’s respect and build relationships with trust and mutual benefits

So how do you make new acquaintances or improve the ones you already have? Usually you will start with “small talk” such as “Wonder if it will rain today”.

Look for opportunities and find ways to create bridges to other topics. Build on those.

Small talk will allow you to get a feel for someone and let you expand the conversation to other subjects that is of interest to both of you.

Good small talk involves building up conversation while becoming aware of the other’s passion. With a friendly tone, a desire to connect and sensitivity you can build a rapport.

With respect for others beliefs, talents and opinions you can start an intelligent and friendly relationship with others.

Think about making use of these relationship ideas and you’ll begin to feel real power when making new connections.

Eye contact is important. It shows your interest, respect and desire to listen. Keeping eye contact does not mean starring intensely at another person to make them feel uncomfortable. You want to briefly look away at intervals and then back. This will telegraph to the person that you are indeed interested but will let them feel relaxed as well.

Your body posture and gestures will send the real message to your companion, no matter what you are saying verbally.

If you are animated without being too aggressive, then they will feel that you are deeply involved in the conversation and sincere.

What about your facial expressions? Are you smiling, surprised or do you convey a sense of boredom and detachment?

Listen to their response without interrupting. When they are done with their points, summarize what they said. Do not repeat, but rephrase it in your own words so that they know that you really did listen and got their message. You are not just repeating what they said like a parrot.

Please don’t repeat everything they say! Just repeat the intriguing points or something that may need clarification.

Ask them questions about the subject they are discussing. If you have an authentic interest, then they will feel as though you are enjoying the conversation.

If you treat others with respect and interest in an honest way that reflects your best character, they will value your input and be truly glad to converse with you again.

Mastering relationships is the greatest way to make new friends, companions and business associates that can build your happiness, quality of life and success that you deserve.

Remember, you must respect and like yourself first, if you want to build genuine relationships with others.

Mastering relationships is the most valuable attribute you will ever discover!

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